Bismillah
Do all men like to sweet-talk?
Yesterday, my friends and I were replying comments back and forth in our group in facebook. We were talking about topics I can do for my dissertation. A friend (a man) told me to give a topic to him if I have an extra (as if I do). I jokingly said that he has to treat me to meals during the period of study if I give him one.
He replied: "belanje lagi cm2 nak senang diya kawen ngn den jela ..mmg hari2 bg mkn punye"
I felt a mixture of delight and annoyance.
Why do men like to say these kind of things, but rarely mean them?
There was a time too another friend did something similar like this. He told me that his parents would like to meet me. He said he would take care of things with his parents and reminded me not to worry. I waited for months (and I didn't even ask him how his progress is) because I didn't want to be insistent or pressurize him. In the end, I didn't get to meet his parents at all. I heard that he will be getting married end of this year.
Do you know, when you said something like that to a woman, sedikit sebanyak hatinya akan terusik. (I couldn't rephrase it nicely in English)
So now you know, please be careful with your words.
Kata pujangga, kerana mulut, badan binasa.
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3 comments:
Ukhti Dhiya..
mungkin sebab awk kiut sgt tk ramai yg terpikat? hehe.. :P
apa kata..lain kali, bila ada lelaki yg ckp sweet2 kt awk, awk berikan beberapa saat atau tak pun, beberapa minit untuk hati awk terusik dgn kata-kata dia, lepas tu, awk tarik nafas dlm2, hembuskan nafas, awk ckp dgn diri awk yg dia bukan zauj awk, jadi wahai hati, jgn terusik dan lupakan..sambil tu awk lintaskan doa pada Allah berikan awk kekuatan dan awk zikir Allah Allah Allah sampailah hilg perasaan tu..
Nanti inshaAllah, pasti awk ok n tenang lepas tu.
bila hati terusik aje lagi n awk terongt2 kata2 sweet tu lagi, awk ulang exercise tadi..
alright? blh tk dipakai idea ni?
:)
moga Allah sentiasa mengajar ana dan anti sst yg lebih bermakna dan besar di sebalik segala yg berlaku dlm hidup yg pengantaraannya selalu merupakan mahkluk2 ciptaanNya termasuklah yg namanya lelaki..
Dari lelaki, ana byk belajar tntg diri ana sbg wanita..
Moga khair ya.
Selamat mencuba ukhti mahbubati!
MIss u!
Nanti dgn zauj awk aje awk blh biarkan hati awk terusik k? hehe.. :P
Fa :)
hehe..
kelakar la awak asyik panggil kita kiut je.. in 10 years time, awak akan panggil kita kiut lagi tak? hehe.. *perasan*
okay, kita akan cuba cara awak tu..
fighting!!~
in 10 years time kte rasa awk masih tetap kiut. :P
Fa
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