white lies

Bismillah

Where can we find a truly truthful person in this world who has NEVER EVER tell a lie? Almost impossible, isn't it? But is it okay to tell a lie, albeit a white lie?

I've seen this habit practiced numerous times by people close to me. It makes me wonder, is it so hard to just tell a person the hard truths? Let's see the situations below:

Situation 1:

You don't want to go to out with your friends so you said you have a family gathering that day. You tell her that so you wouldn't make her feel hurt with the truth and so you won't feel guilty because it's normal family comes first before friends.

Situation 2:

You feel tired and wanted to go back home but your friends wouldn't let you go that easily. So you fake a phone call, then telling them it's from your mother and it's an emergency situation you have to attend to.

and many other situations (which I think many of us are too familiar with)

I don't think an occasional lie is okay. And I don't think that a white lie is permissible in situations described above. Not unless your life is at stake.

A 1000 white lies will eventually create a person to be a liar. A liar will be hard to trust. Na'uzubillah.

Just remember this, a lie to an individual is just the same as lying to Allah. Only worse, because you deprive a person from the truth, and if he doesn't redha this, you are in trouble.. May Allah keep us safe~

Amiin..

perawan hati~

Bismillah

Seakan tidak percaya dengan keadaan diri. Kita belum lagi bersua muka, namun dirinya memberi kesan pada jiwa. Tapi tak mustahil saya sedih kan? Sebab kita pasti mahu berada di samping orang-orang yang soleh.

Orang-orang soleh mesti akan cari isteri-isteri yang solehah.

Mencari wanita-wanita yang masih perawan hatinya.

Sedangkan saya sudah berkali-kali 'ternoda'.

astaghfirullah~

hati ini lagi..

Bismillah

Seharusnya pengalaman lalu sudah cukup menjadi pengajaran pada diri. Berkali-kali telah ditegaskan, jaga hati, jaga perasaan, usah terbuai dengan mimpi-mimpi yang belum jadi kenyataan. Tetapi tiap kali ku tewas juga. Hati ini tercalar lagi.

Bukan salah dia, tapi salahku sendiri, yang bermain dengan fantasi.

my imaam

Bismillah

People might have a wrong perception of my assertiveness in searching for my imaam. I am not looking for him only for myself, but for my family as well.

My mother and sister will have an extra helping hand in the house.

My brothers will have an older brother who they can refer to.

My siblings and I will be able to feel the love of a father figure, at least.

We will get the attention and protection of a man.

My imaam does not only complete half of my deen. My imaam will be the imaam of my family.

Amiin~

rindu..

Bismillah

Rindu nak panggil ayah..

Da 14 tahun tak panggil ayah..

Tahun nie nak graduate, ayah tiada melihat diri..

Nanti kalau nak nikah, ayah tiada sebagai wali..

Ayah

Hanya doa penghubung ikatan

Moga ayah mendapat maghfirahNya

Hanya muncul dalam kenangan & ingatan

Moga sentiasa segar memori bersama

Hanya rahmatNya menjadi harapan

Moga kita dipertemukan di syurga

:')

patah tumbuh, hilang berganti.. insyaAllah~

Bismillah

Apabila seorang telah pergi

Allah hadirkan seorang pengganti

Biarpun masih lagi misteri

Masa hadapan yang tidak diketahui

Harap diri tidak akan berhenti

Berdoa pada Ilahi

Agar disatukan dua hati

Dalam akad nan suci

Sama-sama mengejar mimpi

Kekal di dalam syurgawi

Untuk menatap wajah kekasih hakiki

ceritera maksiat

Bismillah

Manusia mana yang tidak membuat kesilapan. Hamba manakah yang tidak pernah bermaksiat. Kita semua pernah dipalit dosa. Cuma yang membezakan antara kita ialah, adakah kita berbangga dengan dosa yang kita lakukan lalu mencanang-canangkannya kepada orang ramai atau kita berusaha untuk bertaubat, meninggalkan maksiat yang pernah kita lakukan dan tidak membuka aib yang Allah telah tutupkan?

Rabbana ighfirlana dzunubana~

touch-down

Bismillah

Only with the remembrance of Allah does the heart find peace.

What is the best time to remember Allah, if not when we touch our foreheads to the ground?

That is the time when we leave all of our egos to bow down to the Almighty.

That is when we put away our social status, our position at work, our riches and all things which makes us feel superior to the side, because we realised there is a greater power than us.

When we pray, it is a way for us to communicate with Allah.

But more importantly, it is a way to educate us to be a humble individual, to feel inferior as compared to His greatness, for us to remember that we are mere servants who were created to worship Allah and Him alone.

Because of its importance, it is the foremost ibadah that we have to take care of. There is absolutely no excuse not to perform it.

If you can't do it standing, sit.

If you can't sit, lie down.

If you have trouble moving your hands even while lying down, use your eyes.

If you are unable to move your whole body, use your heart.

Even till the end of your time, you will be sent off with a prayer.

Why can we find time to make our worldly life better but we are stingy with the time we spend with Him? Why can we be focused on our worldly affairs but we have absolutely no time to have a 'touch-down'?

Wallahu a'la wa a'lam..